Pull the mind away from solo “porn-inspired

Is Masturbation a canada goose clearance sale Man’s Friend or Foe?

Got wood? buy canada goose jacket cheap Shutterstock Masturbation: it’s canada goose coats on sale common practice for men and women who want to relieve sexual tension, reduce stress and even relax before bed. (But for EBONY.com’s #Manifest November, let’s stick to the men this week.) It can become a lifelong canada goose black friday sale sexual teacher, providing men with an outlet for their raging hormones. But unconsciously, many men self-sabotage their sex lives through the incorrect use of canadian goose jacket masturbation.There’s certainly nothing wrong with the act of masturbation. It’s in fact a very healthy practice, because it provides sexual pleasure without the risk of catching STDs or causing unwanted pregnancy. But “rubbing one out” can cause unsatisfactory sexual habits if the practice is used in tandem with anxiety. Rapid release, issues with maintaining erection, difficulty in connecting cheap Canada Goose with a partner, canada goose store and even difficulty in having a release during intercourse are all issues that can develop if masturbation is canada goose coats performed too consistently, tensely and aggressively.For men who are currently dealing with any of the latter issues, there are ways canada goose replica to reverse damage done to your sex life due to years of using masturbation incorrectly.1. Don’t Be So AnxiousWhen masturbation is performed in a rush, or with anxiety held in the mind, the body becomes trained to release quickly… and this is often one of the causes of premature ejaculation. Instead of being in a hurry to get to the finish line, take it slow and enjoy the process of becoming sexually aroused. Remove Canada Goose Jackets the urgency out of Canada Goose Outlet the stimulation and relax while in a moment of self-pleasuring.If a lack of time is the issue, carve out a space in the day Canada Goose Coats On Sale specifically for the act instead of choosing a small window of time to canada goose outlet get it in and over with. Sit back, relax, and remain in the moment. Take deeper breaths while petting and use a hand stroke that’s less quickened. If feelings of guilt or shame are canada goose the cause of hurried practice, get out of your own head. A grown man has a right to arouse himself in the comforts of his own space. There’s no reason to feel ashamed of taking control of one’s own sexual canada goose deals pleasure.2. Know When to StopFor some men, masturbation becomes the only form of sexual pleasure, which makes it difficult for them to connect with a woman during sexual intercourse. Once a man has his Canada Goose Parka mind programmed to his version of stimulation, the feeling of a woman sometimes doesn’t have the same effect as his own hand stroke.At this point, buy canada goose jacket the best thing for any man canada goose clearance to do is to reprogram his mind into experiencing other forms of sexual stimulation outside of himself. Reducing the amount of times masturbation occurs within a day or a week can help with maintaining an erection and facilitate in intimately connecting with a partner. Pull the mind away from solo “porn-inspired petting” and into the act of becoming sexually stimulated along with a partner. Instead of masturbating five times a day seven days out of the week, reduce that number to once in the morning and once at night during the week (or even less often), and leave the weekend open for a partner to take the control in sexual arousal.3. Try Mutual MasturbationMutual masturbation is a great way for the man who’s lost a connection with his partner to revive reciprocity. Performing with a partner is all about the give and the take. During mutual masturbation, both partners can serve as inspiration for each other while being Canada Goose online responsible for their own sexual pleasure.Performing in front of a partner can help to eradicate feelings of shame that some men may hold against masturbation, especially if so much masturbation is due to https://www.canada-gooseoutlets.ca a lack of satisfaction within his sexual relationship. By allowing a partner to join in on a private process, a level of trust can be established, and she can learn a thing or two about the right strokes to create a more pleasurable experience during Canada Goose sale intercourse. Glamazon Tyomi is a freelance writer, model and sex educator with a deeply rooted passion for spreading the message of sex positivity and encouraging the masses to embrace their sexuality. Her website,www.glamerotica101.com, reaches internationally Canada Goose Online as a source for advice and information for the sexually active/curious.Follow her on Twitter at@glamazontyomi.

It deserves canada goose clearance sale to be a hit

[THE WEEKLY READ] Kelly Rowland

Kelly Rowland Dear Kelly Rowland:All Canada Goose Parka praises to the Most High—Beyoncé—because her supremeness has finally rubbed canada goose coats on sale off on your solo material. Woman, you’ve finally got it right with Talk a Good Game. I don’t know if you were Canada Goose Coats On Sale trying to prove a point or something, but if so, I’m with you: Screw “third time’s a charm.” It’s all about the fourth, ya heard me?You can’t hear me, but I’m clapping like Seabert over this new album. Mind you, I have purchased all of your previous solo albums. Sometimes out of pity, others because the first single had me convinced that you were about to serve the girls and make the Mary Wilsons of the world proudest they’ve ever been. Yeah, that ended up not happening, but this new album…I say this new album right here…this, my Negress, is it.Talk a Good Gameis one of the better contemporary R&B albums to come out in a very long time. Even your Target bonus tracks are killing much of what’s presently floating around. I understand you were making Euros singing those EDM tunes for the gay boys of Spain, but I’m elated canada goose clearance that you’ve come back home. These songs remind me of the Kelly Rowland who killed the collaborations with Nelly and Avant.And honestly, I find it perfect timing: Austerity kicked that whole continent’s backside anyway.I so agree with Pharrell when he says about you: “There are many different facets to her skill, tone and voice, so why her whole album is Canada Goose online different, but my three humble contributions to that great album canadian goose jacket were completely different experiences. She’s going to be a force for a lot of women with her approach.”You’ve been ahead canada goose store of the curve more times than not buy canada goose jacket cheap (that diet R&B stuff on your first album, EDM, etc.), but for some reason or another you weren’t the greatest beneficiary. Well, we’re canada goose not about to let that happen this time. You are leading canada goose black friday sale the charge on R&B’s comeback and we’re going to make sure you don’t let someone else tip toe past you.In other words, I’m not letting Canada Goose Outlet you Ciara yourself.I have a few friendly suggestions. Know that they come from a place of love, concern, and are from a person who has receipts to back up his support of you.1. Promote the hell out of this album. Yes, I know booking a role on The X Canada Goose sale Factor is a nice boost to your bank account, and hopefully, the show does better than last season. As in people are actually watching it. Nonetheless, at the same time you ought to be calling every radio station https://www.forcanadagoose.ru on Earth and whisper sweet nothings about Talk A Good Game. Same for the bloggers — even some of the ones who to this day probably can’t finish a Dr. Seuss book without getting a headache. Talk to everyone. And when you go cheap Canada Goose out there, don't spend 50% of the time gushing about Bey! She's good, she doesn't need the endorsement. This is your canada goose replica moment in the sun, focus on YOU.And go on late night talk shows and dip it low, pick it Canada Goose Online up slow, roll it all around, poke it out, and make your back go. Don’t worry: Christina Milian isn’t out there doing it. You might as well. Really, work this album. It deserves canada goose clearance sale to be a hit.2. Work in more choreography into your act. Listen, I’m going to keep saying this until you actually do it. You can dance, ma’am, and it’s about time you give us some serious choreography. The only other one out here really giving that as far as the R&B Black girls go is your sister in Destiny. Well, Brandy’s gotten much, much better, but your groove canada goose deals is a lot more natural. Use it. God doesn’t bless everyone with that kind of jig.P.S. No, I’m not counting Ciara. I’ve seen the Matrix one, two, and 17 too many Canada Goose Jackets times now.3. Tour. Call Brandy and Fantasia and get this show on the road. You each have released genuinely good, for real, for real R&B records within the last year. Why not go for a “Ladies First” inspired tour?4. Continue being Destiny’s Freak. Some people claim they don’t believe you, but they haven’t been paying attention. Keep on dropping tracks canada goose outlet like “Motivation,” “Ice,” canada goose coats Kisses Down Low,” and “Sky Walker.” Adina Howard didn’t just sing buy canada goose jacket “T-Shirt & Panties” to boost Victoria Secret and Hanes sales; she wanted a movement going. Carry that torch, Kizzy.Good luck now. I’m rooting for you.Michael Arceneaux is the author of the “The Weekly Read,” where tough love is served with just a touch of shade. Tweet him at@youngsinick.